Understandably. I can't say it'd be simple too, because you may have months to settle your feelings before someone comes fresh from the incident.

But you do have time now, here. In many ways I try to consider this an entirely new life. A 'second chance,' I suppose some would say. [a pause and he says, a little awkward because sentiment is difficult] And you are part of this community now. It took me some time to accept, but sleepers are typically generous if not a bit... dramatic.