She's probably going to have to live with that, but that doesn't mean she has to entirely like it.

And then the weird feeling came together. "Oh... wow." She knows which grandfather, since she's already run into the other one.

"Anakin told me you're here but... I heard stories about you, scraps of them, but I didn't... No one exactly had holos."

While, they had holos, but not of Anakin Skywalker. The holos that existed weren't useful for recognizing someone from obviously earlier than all that.