It doesn't change who you are. You're still you, and this place isn't going to take that away from you. But you do realize there's more to who you are than the fight you had at home, right? And bringing it here, trying to pick fights with the Pthumerians? What's that doing besides hurting the people around you?

[Willow's tone is quiet, and gentle under the sound of beat of the crows' wings, and their cries.]

Maybe it's not about starting over, but about moving forward from it. I'm not saying that's an easy thing to do, but hanging onto old grudges that you can't satisfy from here is just going to drive you insane.