That sounds about right. Especially when what counts as a 'first move' for most people is still like ten steps removed from an actual first move with them.

[Unlike the last, this one genuinely is somewhat judgy. Like. There's town fuckery and then there's letting your ex drink your blood to help solve a recurring vampire problem and just going back to not talking after that. He's had more progress with fuckin' Neopolitan, and she literally murdered his niece once.]