Seems to me if you love somebody you ought to be able to put up with a little discomfort. Priorities, y'know.

[That's what he did for Ford, isn't it? Put himself in situations he was uncomfortable with, over and over again, because Ford asked him to? And he only got to the point of it being over the line when it became well and truly clear that Ford valued his work more than his friend's safety. He doesn't remember it. Whatever it was it was so bad that he doesn't remember it, and that means it was bad.]

If it's so hard to admit you care about someone then maybe you don't care about them as much as you want to think you do.