[Clearly he should absolutely use her issues to try to navigate his own, because the question he offers up is precisely the same question that she would've expected out of the man she thinks he is at the present moment. Some things are just universal, after all.]

...I don't know.

[Staring off into the distance is a very, very slim step up from staring at the toes of her boots, which is really what she wants to be doing, but refuses to let herself.]

Because I asked for it, maybe. It's not as though you didn't give me every chance to change. Right up to the last, you were all but begging me to be different, and I...

[She goes quiet.]

We all chose. One way or another.