Why does it matter? Why is he being asked that kind of question? Why wouldn't he deserve it?

He doesn't say anything for a long minute. Breathing through the racing thoughts in his head. He's torn between wanting to speak up, and needing to keep it smashed down, where it belongs. Not bothering someone else with his issues. No one has to be burdened.

"I'm the one who's - I need to be there for them."