[ That's really hard to answer. What ways do people show her these things? She's so divorced from what could be called normal. ]

Asking how you are. Making food for you. Kicking a fuss if you're hurt or you're gone long. Remembering what you like and what you hate. That kind of shit.

[ Like Grandma would. Like her friends would. Like Anna would. ]

Be greedy for it. Nobody will do it for you.